Comfortability: Why's She's Not That Into You

Comfortability: it’s what controls every aspect of our lives, even in the smallest possible ways: where you sleep, how you sleep, what you say, how you say it, who you talk to, who you admire; comfortability. Open your heart and mind and you’ll see it.
The girl you are afraid to talk to will never love you, whether you talk to her or not, as long as you are afraid of talking to her. Nobody likes to be feared. Okay, maybe Kimbo Slice and Adolf Hitler like to be feared, but girls don’t want to be Adolf Hitler. Needless to say, as single women, they also don’t wish to be feared… Being afraid of talking to a girl is completely natural for someone who doesn’t understand the benefits of comfortability.
For ages, nice guys have asked other girls, their friends, and even themselves:
“Why does she like him? He’s a COCKY JERK!” The answer to this question is simple: comfortability. I know what you’re thinking:
“What, no. How could you say this? How can you defend the COCKY JERK?!?” Well, I don’t. I simply stand behind the benefits of comfortability.
At this point you may be questioning my words, but stay with me. What makes a guy a “cocky jerk?”
He must either:
A.) Talk about himself all the time.
Or
B.) Treat her like just another girl.
Now let me ask, what does talking about himself all the time show? It simply shows confidence. Confidence around certain people displays COMFORTABILITY in that instance. Guys who can be confident about themselves in front of girls show those girls that they are comfortable with them.
Mr. Joe-schmoe-nice-guy, on the other hand, says nice things about the girl while he is around her, and only asks questions about her, trying to come off as sensitive. This is a no-no. I AM NOT SAYING THAT BEING SENSITIVE IS BAD. I am instead asking, how do you think the girl feels around this guy? She probably feels feared. She probably senses that this guy is trying very hard to be nice and charming; she senses that HE IS NOT COMFORTABLE AROUND HER; starting to make sense now?
This guy could be the one for her, but she won’t see anything in him because of his lack of comfortability. Let’s say that this guy, instead, walks up to the girl with a smile on his face and talks about how such-and-such was SO FUNNY. He, instead of assuming the role of the hopeless romantic, assumes the role of the comfortable friend posing conversation. This then makes it ten times easier for the girl to be comfortable talking to the guy, or for that matter, to be attracted to him. One love, baby, one love. Just be comfortable!